14 Photos of Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale in Love That Will Break Your Heart

We’re still feeling blue over Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale’s announcement that they’re ending their nearly 13-year marriage. And when you look at photos of them in happier times, it’s hard to believe a split is even possible. Prepare to be heartbroken:

December 1997: Gavin and Gwen attend the Scream 2 premiere together.

February 1998: The couple were all smiles at Clive Davis’ Grammys pre-party.

September 2002: Gavin and Gwen were married on Saturday, September 14, 2002, in London.

December 2002: A few months into their marriage, the newlyweds were still obviously so in love.

February 2004: Two years later, the two looked stunning together at the Vanity Fair Oscar party.

February 2005: Gavin gave Gwen a sweet kiss on the 2005 Grammy Awards red carpet.

February 2006: By the 2006 Grammys, Gwen was pregnant with the couple’s first child, Kingston.

March 2006: Even though they were seated a row apart, Gwen and Gavin still held hands at the Pacific Life Open.

September 2006: The two had a date night at Philippe Chow with baby Kingston in tow.

October 2009: Happy Halloween! Gwen and Gavin took Kingston and Zuma out trick or treating.

September 2010: Eight years into their marriage, Gwen and Gavin still looked so in love.

December 2012: The musicians share a kiss onstage during a L.A. holiday concert.

June 2013: Gwen and Gavin take their sons Kingston and Zuma and niece Stella to an event.

September 2014: One year before Gwen and Gavin would announce their split.