受欢迎的生活教练Tony Robbins为#MeToo的评论道歉
更新，2018年4月4日： 托尼·罗宾斯是一位受欢迎的生活教练，他在3月份的一次自助活动中错误地描述了#MeToo运动的一段视频后遭到了抨击，在Tarana Burke和其他许多人在社交媒体上称他为道歉之后发了道歉.
在他的Facebook页面上的一篇文章中，罗宾斯写道：“在最近在圣何塞举行的释放权力（UPW）活动中，我的评论未能反映出我对Tarana Burke和#MeToo运动所取得的一切的尊重。我道歉除了我对#MeToo运动的深刻钦佩之外，还有其他任何建议。让我清楚地说，我同意#MeToo运动的目标及其“通过同理心赋予权力”的创始信息，这使它成为美好的力量。“
他接着说：“……有时候，老师必须成为学生，很明显我还有很多东西需要学习。我教导说”生活发生在你身上，而不是发生在你身上“，而我所意识到的是，我一生致力于与世界各地的虐待受害者合作，我需要与#MeToo的勇敢女性建立联系。“
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#MeToo，Tarana Burke的创始人周六在推特上发布了一段极具影响力的生活教练托尼罗宾斯的视频，其中他歪曲了这一运动及其影响，并传播开来。剪辑的历史可以追溯到3月中旬，当时罗宾斯在圣何塞发表了他的“释放内在力量”自助活动，而考虑到今天运动仍然面临的强烈反应，伯克对它的回应非常突出。在罗宾斯的演讲中，他告诉观众，＃MeToo运动是女性使用“受害者”来帮助她们获得“重要性”的借口 – 而且从那里变得更糟.
“如果你使用#MeToo运动试图通过攻击和摧毁其他人来获得重要性和确定性……你所做的一切基本上都是使用一种叫做意义的药物来让自己感觉良好，”罗宾斯在视频中说道。.
在这段11分钟的视频中，一名名叫Nanine McCool的观众成员，一名童年性虐待的幸存者，被给了一个麦克风向罗宾斯提问。她开始说：“我认为你误解了#MeToo运动……”在罗宾斯切断她之前。几乎整整两分钟后，当她回到场地时，她解释说，她觉得罗宾斯错误地描述了整个运动，声称女性正在利用它来获取个人利益。.
Life coach Tony Robbins says women are using #MeToo to make themselves 'significant' — but this brave sexual abuse survivor called him out pic.twitter.com/wYxhlmc10u
— NowThis (@nowthisnews) April 6, 2018
这位生活教练的网站称他“为来自100个国家的5000多万人提供了授权”，他继续使用McCool来表达自己的观点。他靠着拳头向后走过体育场的过道，问她为什么要抵抗他的推动才能说出自己的观点。他解释说，推开别人不会让你更安全.
罗宾斯然后给出了一个例子，说明他如何看待现实生活中的运动：他暗示女性因为运动而成为工作场所的责任。罗宾斯解释说：“前几天我和一个人在一起，非常有名的人，非常有权势的人。他说他是多么强调，因为那天他采访了三个人 – 一个是女人，两个是男人。” “这位女士更有资格，但她非常有吸引力，而且他知道，’我不能让她在身边，因为这太大了。’他还聘请了其他人。我有十几个人告诉我这件事。“
如果你在阅读之后摇头和/或发脾气，你并不孤单。在看完视频之后，伯克在Twitter帖子中分享了她的想法，开头说：“如果你与更多的幸存者交谈，而不那么性别歧视的商人也许你会理解我们想要的东西。”
I was made aware of this video BEFORE I ever saw it because Tony Robbins people reached out to do damage control within 24 hours. They wanted to “give me context” apparently. I don’t need any. I have eyes. The full video is 11 mins. And it’s gross. Bravo to this woman. https://t.co/gjbm9GF1Mz
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
Oh the video is MUCH worse. His misogyny runs deep. To even repeat that story of his ‘friend’ who wouldn’t hire the ‘pretty woman’ as if it’s the MOVEMENT’s fault and not the sexist man’s fault is all you need to hear. It’s deplorable. But SO many folks misunderstand this work.
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
And he is clear that he won’t apologize so it is what it is. If you choose to keep supporting him it’s with full knowledge of his views on women and survivors.
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
This moment is so damaging especially with how influential @TonyRobbins is. We have a hard enough time trying to shift the narrative about what this movement really is and he stands in front of thousands of his followers and completely misrepresents the @MeTooMVMT
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
Crash course @TonyRobbins:
1. @MeTooMVMT is NOT about victimization it’s about SURVIVORS
2. Women are not to blame for the deep seeded misogyny that you and men like your ‘friend’ are mired in. #metoo
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
3. Survivors are not complicit in their own abuse. Speaking our truth is part of healing not a ploy to gain ‘significance’ – bc when does that even HAPPEN?!
4. Physical intimidation can be a form or harassment. Rewatch that video and then watch your step homie.
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
5. This movement is about making sure survivors have the resources to heal AFTER they’ve said #metoo, it’s about galvanizing a global community or survivors and advocates to do the work of interrupting sexual violence. It’s about protecting folks’ human dignity at all cost.
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
@TonyRobbins If you talk to more SURVIVORS and less sexist businessmen maybe you’ll understand what we want. We want safety. We want healing. We want accountability. We want closure. We want to live a life free from shame. That’s the reality of the @MeTooMVMT sir, do better.
— Tarana (@TaranaBurke) April 7, 2018
其他人分享了罗宾斯的视频，打电话给他，并准确说明他为什么要这么做
What he is saying is a streaming pile of horseshit. No one is using the #MeToo movement to gain "significance". He is deliberately wrong about the movement in an attempt to absolve himself & his buddies of being accountable for deplorable behavior & working conditions. https://t.co/WImoWxay6c
— Gabrielle Union (@itsgabrielleu) April 7, 2018
https://twitter.com/ismashfizzle/status/982612816833204225?s=21
and @TonyRobbins if a man is "afraid" to hire an attractive woman bc it's "too dangerous" he's a fucking creep. that's not #MeToo's fault
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) March 22, 2018
If your famous pal can’t trust himself &/or his coworkers to behave respectfully & professionally around a qualified woman just because she’s attractive then he has a personal or personnel problem it’s not a problem of the #Metoo movement @TonyRobbins https://t.co/desJnEb7Dv
— Daryl Hannah (@dhlovelife) April 6, 2018
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