My Guide to Kinky Sex, Vol. 1: Hair-Pulling

Remember when the boys in elementary school used to pull your hair when they liked you? What if we turned the tables and showed them how much we like ’em back by introducing a bit of hair-tugging in bed?

The thing is, hair-pulling should be hot, not hurt. It has to be done well and at the right time, or it can turn a perfectly decent romp into a weird-out. I broke down the move into three levels so you could play with it in a way that makes you comfortable. Start from bottom and work your way up, find the one that works for you and stick with it, or go big!

Risky:

Next time he’s going down on you, run your fingers through his hair. Spread your fingers and slip them about an inch above his scalp. Close your fingers and gently move your hand back and forth for a bit of a cranial massage.

Riskier:

Do the above move, but this time tug the hair away from the scalp with a little bit of force when he finds that sweet spot that makes you quiver.

Oh-baby!:

Missionary may be “boring” to some (but we all know it’s our second favorite position!) Next time you’re having sex and you really like what he’s doing, slip your fingers near the nape of his neck and give it a good yank. The more hair you grab, the less chance you’ll hurt him and the more he’ll like it.

There’s more where that came from. Tomorrow, I’ll give you a kinky move that will make him howl—in a good way!

__Let’s see a show of hands. Who likes to add a bit of kink to their sex life? Would you try any of the above versions of hair-pulling? Have you ever had an experience you want to share?

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More naughty sex tips:

* Sex Tip From a Guy: Mouth Play

* Oral Sex Tips: Start His Morning Off Right With This Surprise Move

* Hooking Up: Blow His Mind (Among Other Things) With This Kinky Move

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