The Best Sex Positions for a Well-Endowed Guy

Many times deep penetration feels amazing; however, well-endowed men don’t always know the right angle or position to make women feel good.

The most important thing to do: Make sure you spend a lot of time on foreplay getting warmed up. The more turned on and lubricated you are, the easier it will be, regardless of the position. In fact, this goes for all sex, no matter what size the member. Foreplay is a requirement, not a suggestion!

If your guy is large, you’ll need to always have lots of lubricant on hand. Even if you’re already turned on and wet, adding a little slip and slide will help him move in easier, prevent chafing, and make it more comfortable for you throughout.

Positions that incorporate shallow thrusting are best—that way, his penis won’t hit your cervix, which can be extremely painful. Here’s what I recommend:

1. Since the G-spot is located only a few inches inside the vagina on the upper wall, positions that use the tip of the penis to stimulate the G-spot will feel amazing with a large penis. For excellent G-spot stimulation, try having him on his knees, while you’re on your side, and make sure he thrusts lightly as to not go too deep.

2. The spooning inversion with the man on his side and the woman on her back is an extremely intimate pose. Both partners can cuddle closely as the angle of this position puts pressure in all the right places for both parties, without discomfort.

3. Another great position to try is the tried-and-true woman on top. She can control the depth of penetration and offer the man a chance to play with her breasts, stimulate the clitoris, and incorporate other forms of pleasure, like adding a vibrator.

Steer clear of doggie style, as it’s most likely to cause pain for the woman.

With lots of lube, experimenting with different positions, and open communication between you and your partner, you’ll find what works for you.

*Emily Morse is a sexologist, host of the Sex With Emily podcast, and cofounder of Emily & Tony. She has a doctorate in human sexuality and is the author of *Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight and a weekly cohost of the nationally syndicated radio show Loveline With Dr. Drew Pinsky.